Why am I passionate about this?

Over my past 87 years, I have experienced a multitude of intimate relationships, including “falling in lust,” infidelity, “one-night stands,” one-week trysts to 40-year companionships, two marriages, and fatherhood, but the one that was most lasting and important to me was one of unconditional love.


I wrote

Sometimes the Heart Sees Things the Eyes Cannot

By Harold Bergman,

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What is my book about?

By the time I reached age 55, I had experienced two failed marriages and many dozens of unloving affairs. I…

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Harold Bergman Why did I love this book?

I love this book because Robert Service is the most famous Canadian author and writes about adventuresome people who don’t fit in.

The poet descriptively pens events foreign to that experienced by most everyday, common people, and romanticizes his characters in such a way that the reader can’t help but have empathy for them and their situation.

By Robert Service,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Collected Poems of Robert Service as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Robert Service, who is known as the “Bard of the Yukon,” is known for his ability to capture the adventure, desolation, and beauty of the Canadian North, and this authoritative collection highlights his most popular works that came to immortalize the Klondike Gold Rush. This expansive edition of the poetry of Robert Service includes his most beloved works, including The Spell of the Yukon and Ballads of a Cheechako, in one beautiful hardbound collection.

Perfect for fans of Jack London and Rudyard Kipling, Service’s work is readable verse that will appeal to adventurers, nature-lovers, and historians. Filled with colorful characters…


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Harold Bergman Why did I love this book?

Anne Carson is a Canadian poet who wonderfully expresses the trauma associated with loving another person, the angst of a failing relationship, and the bittersweet emotions once the relationship has ended.

Most everyone who has fallen in love and lost cannot help but relate to the words in her poems.

By Anne Carson,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Eros the Bittersweet as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Selected by the Modern Library as one of the 100 best nonfiction books of all time

A book about romantic love, Eros the Bittersweet is Anne Carson's exploration of the concept of "eros" in both classical philosophy and literature. Beginning with, "It was Sappho who first called eros 'bittersweet.' No one who has been in love disputes her," Carson examines her subject from numerous points of view, creating a lyrical meditation in the tradition of William Carlos Williams's Spring and All and William H. Gass's On Being Blue.

Epigrammatic, witty, ironic, and endlessly entertaining, Eros is an utterly original book.


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Harold Bergman Why did I love this book?

This is a song rather than a book, but the words to a song are a form of poetry, and Joni Mitchell writes that song based on 40 years of enduring love in a marriage with her lifelong companion and captures the longing when lovers are apart for long periods of time.

By Joni Mitchell,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked A Case Of You as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Digital Sheet Music of A Case Of You

Composed by: Joni Mitchell

Performed by: Joni Mitchell


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Harold Bergman Why did I love this book?

I liked this book because the titles of the poems are distinctive in that they represent specific latitudinal and longitudinal coordinates on the map.

Each of these sites gives an insight into the content of the various poems, reminding me to believe I was in love with different people.

By Sarah de Leeuw,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Geographies of a Lover as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Sarah de Leeuw's Geographies of a Lover is a sexually charged travelogue of love, lust, and loss.Drawing inspiration from such works as Pauline Réage's The Story of O and Marian Engel's Bear, de Leeuw's poetry uses the varied landscape of Canada--from the forests of North Vancouver through the Rocky Mountains, the prairies, and all the way to the Maritimes--to map the highs and lows of an explicit and raw sexual journey, from earliest infatuation to insatiable obsession and beyond.


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Harold Bergman Why did I love this book?

I love this book because her poems reflect the various stages of love from the very beginning, “love at first sight,” the initial excitement of a love affair, through the eventual boredom of steady relations to the heartbreak when a relationship ends, and sometimes lifelong grief. They are a constant reminder of my life and love experiences.

By Christina Strigas,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Love & Vodka as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Love & Vodka is Christina Strigas' third poetry book. This book is written for all the hearts that shatter, that are transparent, that crack, rebuild and see truth. This is for the souls that connect through words. The poems in this book will make you breathless from their honesty. This poetry collection is full of poems that will make you contemplate the magic of connections disconnections, rejection, love, drinking, pain, marriage, loneliness, honor and the perils of living so many lifetimes in one. Delve into poetry head first and read passages over again to connect. This book has a modern…


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Sometimes the Heart Sees Things the Eyes Cannot

By Harold Bergman,

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What is my book about?

By the time I reached age 55, I had experienced two failed marriages and many dozens of unloving affairs. I fell in unconditional love with a happily married woman, whose unconditional love was reciprocated. We both knew she would never leave her husband and sooner or later the intimacy was doomed to end, although the unconditional love would last forever. Feelings and thoughts we had never sensed before gushed from our minds. This book reflects some of them.

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